It's really been a very long time that I maintained a daily diary.Sometimes twitter has been keeping a track but I guess nothing like what a pen and paper can do....
Here's an effort or should I say Moments in time which will be a good read after my retirement... am I serious about what I just said ? Yes, very much a believer in the destiny of time and plans unknown, I sure would enjoy the history of myself like the ones of Hitler I read... The only fear-shutdown of blog spot :(
I am not into the acts and modes of dedication,hence I keep it to myself and to the LOVE who shall be the last to strike that chord of my heart which shall be broken and never replaced, if for once it plays a tune I don't like...
22nd Jan 2009 :
Was on a routine at work & that's when I get an Instant Message-Hi Vish...
Conversation revolved around work & recent terminations and then to breakfast.
She asked me if I finished breakfast and I replied - I thought you were cooking breakfast for me and I want you to cook for the rest of my life...
Thus began "Love's little notes" :)
Till then with absolutely no thoughts what so ever,I was forced to think about what I had decided I shall never think. This time though the only difference was there was clarity in the chaos and the decisions that I made.
I guess Feb 2009 was all formal conversations and every time we caught up on gtalk or on aim I was only giving her time to think and I knew she was thinking hard.
21st Mar 2009 :
We speak about the FPR discussion that happened at work.By this time I was firm on what I wanted and she was helping me understand her better before a YES or NO. This can be the most crucial period because you are thinking and its not just the instinct.
08th Apr 2009 :
After long cellphone conversations we decided to meet at Malleshwaram Coffee Day. As usual I was punctual and have to admit she is as punctual too. As any other such meetings would end,this one was serious and it was about how much you can speak about yourself and your family.I was convinced of my decision and she was happy about her decision too.
But the final conclusion was until both families are not convinced we shall go no further in our conversations.
May 2009 :
It wasn't difficult at both places and infact my family was jumping with joy at what I told.It's so nice and beautiful to see your family happy.Some decisions that we make may not be an obvious sad look at the face but you know it's a worm slowly eating your mind starting from the heart. Atleast I was relieved and all losses were restored.
Everyday that I spoke to her brought a new life,sometimes it feels like you just started when you have done it all and had to fortunately or unfortunately taste the bitterness that it has to offer.
May '09 definitely showered some good drops on the seeds newly planted :)
07th June 2009 :
Without any apprehensions I invited her home and I could see the anxiety on her face and the curiosity in my family.
They liked her and it was love at first sight for them. Immediate plans were made that her family will be invited the coming weekend.
This shall be a day unforgettable where I felt nature has blessed me when it rained as if it knew I would love it. In rain with the one you love is a beautiful experience.(Heaven's Blessed on the first date)
That night with a sigh of relief,we bid good night to each other with a smile of faith and hopes.
14th June 2009 :
Her parents were invited by my father to my place so that they could speak and see each other.Have you seen the earth trembling,that's how nervous she was on that day.
It was a lovely evening where the families got to know each other.
21st June 2009 :
After their visit,it was our turn to visit their place.As expected it was a good get together.
The reason why all this was done so fast was because starting 22nd June it's ashada and no good things are done during this month.
4th July 2009 :
Now this was something that I liked...first time myself going to buy jewelry.Vidya came home and along with my Parents we went to Bhima jewels at Koramangala to purchase the engagement rings.
18th July 2009 :
First shopping with Vidya at megamart.We brought shirts and trousers for the engagement and guess what ? after long years I shall be wearing a sweater.I'm sure it will surprise a lot of them around me even my mother,because I believe the weather cannot affect me in any way & hence I don't wear any winter wear. It's my sweet hearts gift & I shall not only wear it but also brag about it :)
09th August 2009 :
The big day-got engaged to Sri Vidya at Kannika Parameshwari Temple in Srirampuram. Srinivasa Kalyana was heavenly. It was a good feeling receiving blessings from elders.Rings were exchanged and so were our hearts !
Now that I'm engaged I bring an end to this and shall start another post "Heart Work"
Here's an effort or should I say Moments in time which will be a good read after my retirement... am I serious about what I just said ? Yes, very much a believer in the destiny of time and plans unknown, I sure would enjoy the history of myself like the ones of Hitler I read... The only fear-shutdown of blog spot :(
I am not into the acts and modes of dedication,hence I keep it to myself and to the LOVE who shall be the last to strike that chord of my heart which shall be broken and never replaced, if for once it plays a tune I don't like...
22nd Jan 2009 :
Was on a routine at work & that's when I get an Instant Message-Hi Vish...
Conversation revolved around work & recent terminations and then to breakfast.
She asked me if I finished breakfast and I replied - I thought you were cooking breakfast for me and I want you to cook for the rest of my life...
Thus began "Love's little notes" :)
Till then with absolutely no thoughts what so ever,I was forced to think about what I had decided I shall never think. This time though the only difference was there was clarity in the chaos and the decisions that I made.
I guess Feb 2009 was all formal conversations and every time we caught up on gtalk or on aim I was only giving her time to think and I knew she was thinking hard.
21st Mar 2009 :
We speak about the FPR discussion that happened at work.By this time I was firm on what I wanted and she was helping me understand her better before a YES or NO. This can be the most crucial period because you are thinking and its not just the instinct.
08th Apr 2009 :
After long cellphone conversations we decided to meet at Malleshwaram Coffee Day. As usual I was punctual and have to admit she is as punctual too. As any other such meetings would end,this one was serious and it was about how much you can speak about yourself and your family.I was convinced of my decision and she was happy about her decision too.
But the final conclusion was until both families are not convinced we shall go no further in our conversations.
May 2009 :
It wasn't difficult at both places and infact my family was jumping with joy at what I told.It's so nice and beautiful to see your family happy.Some decisions that we make may not be an obvious sad look at the face but you know it's a worm slowly eating your mind starting from the heart. Atleast I was relieved and all losses were restored.
Everyday that I spoke to her brought a new life,sometimes it feels like you just started when you have done it all and had to fortunately or unfortunately taste the bitterness that it has to offer.
May '09 definitely showered some good drops on the seeds newly planted :)
07th June 2009 :
Without any apprehensions I invited her home and I could see the anxiety on her face and the curiosity in my family.
They liked her and it was love at first sight for them. Immediate plans were made that her family will be invited the coming weekend.
This shall be a day unforgettable where I felt nature has blessed me when it rained as if it knew I would love it. In rain with the one you love is a beautiful experience.(Heaven's Blessed on the first date)
That night with a sigh of relief,we bid good night to each other with a smile of faith and hopes.
14th June 2009 :
Her parents were invited by my father to my place so that they could speak and see each other.Have you seen the earth trembling,that's how nervous she was on that day.
It was a lovely evening where the families got to know each other.
21st June 2009 :
After their visit,it was our turn to visit their place.As expected it was a good get together.
The reason why all this was done so fast was because starting 22nd June it's ashada and no good things are done during this month.
4th July 2009 :
Now this was something that I liked...first time myself going to buy jewelry.Vidya came home and along with my Parents we went to Bhima jewels at Koramangala to purchase the engagement rings.
18th July 2009 :
First shopping with Vidya at megamart.We brought shirts and trousers for the engagement and guess what ? after long years I shall be wearing a sweater.I'm sure it will surprise a lot of them around me even my mother,because I believe the weather cannot affect me in any way & hence I don't wear any winter wear. It's my sweet hearts gift & I shall not only wear it but also brag about it :)
09th August 2009 :
The big day-got engaged to Sri Vidya at Kannika Parameshwari Temple in Srirampuram. Srinivasa Kalyana was heavenly. It was a good feeling receiving blessings from elders.Rings were exchanged and so were our hearts !
Now that I'm engaged I bring an end to this and shall start another post "Heart Work"
